just take a second and think about how many people you well and truly hate. Now think why? bets are, a lot of those people who you hate, or, are even "enemies" with, you can't even remember the reason why you hated them in the first place. you 'just do'. now tell me, does that sound like a good reason to you? everyone has hated some one in their life; i know i have hated people before, maybe not even for a good reason! some of those times i was even the one who started it off; and only hate the person purely on the bounds that they hate me. which may sound fair to some of you, why should i like someone who doesn't even like me? but honestly, i just don't feel good having so much hatred inside me, it's much nicer just to let things go. now i'm not saying you just forgive the person if they've done something terrible, all i'm saying is just don't let it rule your life. whether that means you have to say sorry, make it up to the person, or even just forget about them completely! you never know, the person you're in a feud with might be a really nice person, you just never saw it through all the hatred. however, if they've hurt you it's a different story than a simple sorry, but you know what? it's no good just holding onto all the pain and tears that person's caused you! you may see them around sometimes, and you might even hate them so much that their mere presence annoys you, but I'll tell you this, you getting wound up is just pure entertainment for them! if you talk about them, you're just undoing the stitches, causing more hurt for yourself than necessary, and i know this sort of pain usually comes from relationships. emotions suck, but we're all still learning, from the day we're born to the day we die; we will never know everything, but you'll get the most out of life if you just keep moving on, re-living emotions just holds you back when there could be a whole new world just around the corner! i've seen friends get hung up on people they hate, but those people have moved on, and like i said, the hatred is holding them back and sometimes even getting to them and making them stressed and angry. now i know you might even think me pathetic for forgiving people so easily, but i dont want to say i hate so many people, especially when i dont even know them well enough. i dont like it when people hate me without bothering to get to know me first, so why should i do that to others? i've seen so much hatred already, and i'm already 15, i know what it can do to people and it's much better to move on and be happy. some people seek revenge, but people, like my mother, can stay strong for themselves and others and just move on and forget about the people they hate and find that happiness, is only a couple steps away. If you're one of those people who struggle to forgive, too hurt or caught up by what's happened, then it's fine, as long as you're in control of your emotions. after going through pain, you need to moan, complain and even cry just to get it out of your system, but don't prolong it, it doesn't help you get over it, it just brings back memories that aren't wanted nor needed! and, well, if all else fails, just think about hitler, everyone hates him, so at least you're not alone in your hatred! ciao.
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